Temperance as a Tarot Birth Card

Temperance Tarot card
14Temperance
Personality card Found in 11% of people Meaning in readings

Balance, moderation, patience, harmony, healing

Paired With

Temperance is the Personality card for anyone whose date of birth reduces to 14. Its digits add up to five, so your Soul card is always The Hierophant. Outwardly such a person is calm, tactful and good at finding the middle ground; inwardly they hold a firm set of values.

The Rider–Waite card shows a winged angel with one foot on land and the other in water, pouring water from one cup into another. On the angel's chest is a triangle within a square, irises grow at its feet, and in the distance a path leads to mountains crowned with light. It is the image of balance and of healing through joining opposites. Those born under it receive a particular gift: harmony.

Temperance as a Personality Card

The Personality card describes your outer side: the way people see you. Temperance makes a person the calm centre of any group. They don't raise their voice or rush to extremes, and they can ease tension with a single word.

People are drawn to such a person when they are struggling: things feel easier around them. They bring together what seems incompatible: people with different views, ideas from different fields, work and rest. The lesson of Temperance is that balance doesn't mean giving up your own opinion.

Strengths

  • A sense of measure. You know how much of anything is needed and avoid extremes.
  • Diplomacy. You reconcile people who argue and find solutions that suit everyone.
  • Patience. You can wait for results without forcing things.
  • A healing presence. People feel calmer and lighter around you.

The Shadow Side

The shadow of Temperance is avoiding conflict. The person values harmony so much that they stay silent when they should object and agree to things they don't agree with. Peace on the outside becomes tension inside.

The other extreme is blandness: in pursuit of balance it is easy to lose passion and colour. The card's message is that the middle way isn't greyness but a precise proportion, and sometimes it calls for a lot of fire.

In Love and Relationships

In a relationship you are a gentle, caring and patient partner. You know how to reach agreement, smooth over quarrels and create a calm atmosphere. With you, a relationship becomes a quiet harbour.

Take care not to hide your own wishes for the sake of peace. Your partner needs to know what you really feel, or the harmony will rest on your patience alone.

Work and Calling

Temperance suits professions about connecting and healing: medicine and rehabilitation, psychology, mediation, team management, teaching, cooking, chemistry, pharmacy, design, work across cultures.

You are a valuable colleague in difficult teams: conflicts die down around you and the work runs smoothly.

The Temperance and Hierophant Pair

Temperance outside, The Hierophant inside. The world sees a tactful mediator. The Hierophant explains what keeps your balance steady: you have inner principles that don't change depending on who you are talking to.

Together the two cards describe a born mentor and peacemaker. You find compromise, not an unprincipled one but one grounded in values, which is why people find it easy to trust you.

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FAQ

No. Temperance speaks not of greyness but of the art of exact proportion. Just as the angel on the card mixes water from two cups, you combine opposites and get something new and whole.

Temperance is linked to Sagittarius and the element of Fire. It is the sign of seeking meaning, broad views and the journey, which is where Temperance's gift for joining different things and finding common ground comes from.

Speak your mind even when you want to keep the peace: gently but directly. And look for work that means joining what seems incompatible: that is where your gift as a mediator fully opens up.