When Will I Have a Girlfriend? — Tarot Reading
The question sounds simple. When will I have a girlfriend? Yet the answer stays out of reach for years. You work, you see friends, you meet someone now and then, and it never goes past a couple of dates. One person tells you to try harder. Another tells you to be patient. Both are useless while nobody can say what is holding your love life in place. This free online Tarot reading looks at the situation from the angle you cannot see from the inside. Five Rider-Waite cards name a rough timeline for when being single ends, explain the reason behind the long pause and give an honest verdict on how ready you are to share your life with someone. Two more show what women read in you the moment you meet them, and what you want from closeness even if you have never said it out loud. The cards will not hand you a date on the calendar or the address of a café. What they do is clear away the guesswork and point at the places where you get in your own way. A man moves faster with a clear picture in front of him than with a pile of other people's advice. If the wait has dragged on and you want to see the timing, draw your cards and see what Tarot says about the months ahead.
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1When will you have a girlfriend?
2Why are you still single?
3Are you ready for a relationship?
4How do women see you?
5What do you want from a relationship?
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What the reading reveals
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When will you have a girlfriend?
A rough timeline for when being single ends. The season and the circumstances that bring a girlfriend into your life, and how close that moment sits to today.
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Why are you still single?
Sometimes it has nothing to do with the women around you. An inner brake or a life situation that keeps relationships from happening, year after year after year.
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Are you ready for a relationship?
You say you want a relationship. But could you handle someone else's habits, daily conversations, somebody's bad mood on a Monday? How ready you are to let a person in.
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How do women see you?
From the outside you are not the man you think you are. What women read in you when they meet you, what draws them in and what makes them keep a polite distance.
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What do you want from a relationship?
Something serious, a light romance, someone who is simply there in the evening. What you want from a girlfriend, even if you have never once admitted it to yourself.
When to do a reading
Your Friends Are All Coupled Up
One got married, another has a mortgage and a stroller. The group chat is all preschools and couples holidays, and you answer with a joke and put the phone down. Everything looks fine from outside. Work is fine, friends are fine. The flat just gets very quiet in the evening, and every year that quiet presses harder.
You Meet Women but Nothing Sticks
You get numbers. The texting starts well. A week later she answers every other message, two weeks later she is gone. You scroll back through the chat and cannot find the moment it broke. Maybe it is you. Maybe those were simply the wrong women. There is nothing to check that guess against.
Work Eats Every Evening
Up at seven, office until eight, dinner and a series until you fall asleep. Weekends go to sleep and to your parents. You are supposed to meet someone somewhere, but where, when your entire circle is coworkers and two school friends. The idea of installing an app comes once a month and dies at the sign-up screen.
You Never Started Over After the Breakup
Two years have passed since that conversation in the kitchen. You let go, threw her things out, unfollowed her long ago. But every new woman gets compared to her without you meaning to, and the comparison never goes the new woman's way. Being alone turned into a habit, and habits are hard to break.
You Moved and Lost Your Circle
New city, rented flat, a job full of strangers. Old friends are a thousand kilometres away and you call them once a month. You know nobody here, and you cannot picture where a girlfriend would even come from. The streets are unfamiliar, the groups are closed, the evenings all look the same.