How Can I Improve Intimacy With Him? — Tarot Reading

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How Can I Improve Intimacy With Him? — Tarot Reading

You can want him and still find it hard to relax in bed. Perhaps you wish he would slow down, but worry that saying so will hurt him. You might enjoy sex together and simply want more warmth afterward. This free online Rider-Waite Tarot reading gives you room to think about those feelings and the intimate life you share with him. Five cards explore what helps you feel close, what gets in the way, and what you have yet to say aloud. The spread also asks how he feels beside you and where you could begin. Your comfort belongs in that picture too. You do not have to guess his tastes or act the part of a perfect lover. Notice when you feel at ease and when you agree to something you do not want. You can use the cards as a prompt to find words for what feels good and what you would like to change. What he tells you, and how he responds when you speak, will tell you more about him than a symbol can. There need not be a crisis to ask these questions. You may already be happy together and want to feel less shy about sex. Start with what matters to you, then leave room to hear what matters to him.

What the reading reveals

  1. How can we feel closer in bed?

    What could help you both feel more at ease during sex. A way to be together that leaves room for your passion and his warmth, without either of you having to play a part.

  2. What keeps us from feeling at ease?

    Fear of looking awkward, shame about your body, hurt after an argument. What comes between you in bed and makes it hard to be yourself even when you both want closeness.

  3. What should we talk about honestly?

    The things you have yet to say plainly to each other. What feels good during sex, where you want more tenderness, and what you do not want to do but feel unable to refuse for fear of upsetting him.

  4. How does he feel beside me?

    How warm and comfortable he feels alone with you. His feelings during intimacy, when he no longer has to seem strong and can simply be beside the woman he loves.

  5. Where can I start right now?

    A small step you can take at your own pace. How to be more honest with yourself and kinder to each other so that sex feels good for both of you and never becomes a duty.

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When to do a reading

You feel shy about bringing up sex

He seems confident in bed, so you go along with his usual pace. Sometimes you wish he would be gentler, but you cannot quite say it. You worry he will feel hurt and think you have disliked sex all along. You lie beside him, unsure how to bring it up.

You struggle to be tender after a fight

You made up and had dinner together as usual. Later he reaches for you, but you still remember the sharp words. You do not want to push him away, yet your body stays tense. How do you explain that you still feel hurt when you already said you were fine?

You compare yourself with his ex

He mentioned his ex once, and you have been comparing yourself with her ever since. Even in bed you catch yourself wondering whether she was more confident. He has said nothing of the sort, yet you keep watching yourself instead of enjoying his company.

He rarely tells you how he feels

He holds you close and happily stays the night, but rarely says how he feels. You cannot tell whether he enjoys being with you. Asking him outright feels risky because he might answer just to be polite. You study his face and still feel unsure.

You want more warmth after sex

As soon as sex is over, he reaches for his phone. You would like to lie close to him a little longer. Asking feels awkward, as though you want too much. He scrolls through the news while you stare at the ceiling, wondering why you feel lonely beside him.

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