His Feelings for His Wife and Me? — Tarot Reading
He says his marriage has gone cold, yet his voice softens when his wife calls. It is hard to know where you stand after moments like that. This free online Tarot reading, His Feelings for His Wife and Me, separates his feelings for each of you so you can consider them without assuming one must cancel out the other. The five cards also ask what he values about you, what he keeps to himself, and what scares him about being close to you. Years of marriage do not tell you how much tenderness remains between them. Nor does an intense evening together tell you how much space he gives you in his life. Tarot images offer a way to think about those gaps and put words to the things you hesitate to ask him. Keep one man and your current circumstances in mind. You do not need to decide in advance which woman matters more to him. Each bond has its own history. The cards cannot verify his private thoughts or establish whether his account of his marriage is true. Compare what you read with how he treats you on ordinary days, how he responds when you are hurt, and whether he listens when you tell him what you need.
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1How does he feel about me?
2How does he feel about his wife?
3What does he value about me?
4What does he keep from me?
5What scares him about being close to me?
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What the reading reveals
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How does he feel about me?
What he feels when he thinks about you. How much warmth he has for you and whether the tenderness in his words carries the same weight for him as it does for you.
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How does he feel about his wife?
How close he feels to his wife now. How tender he feels towards her and what still hurts him. You may only know about their life through what he tells you while they are still married.
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What does he value about me?
Why you hold a special place in his life. The things he values about you as a person and how much you matter beyond the private hours you manage to spend together.
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What does he keep from me?
What he finds hard to tell you directly. Thoughts about his wife and your relationship that he keeps to himself when he gives a brief reply and changes the subject.
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What scares him about being close to me?
What troubles him when he thinks about the two of you. How he feels about getting closer and what he fears losing if he lets you into the rest of his life.
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He says he and his wife are strangers
He says he and his wife barely speak. Then her name lights up his phone and his voice softens as he answers. You hear a warmth that is hard to square with the marriage he described. How close are they when you are not there to hear the way they speak to each other?
I want to know how much I matter
You can talk for hours and feel completely at ease beside him. Once he goes home, you wonder how much you matter when you are apart. You want to know that he thinks about you on an ordinary afternoon too, without needing you to get in touch.
He defends his wife when I ask about her
When you question something he says about his wife, his tone turns sharp. He asks you to be fair to her because they have been together for so many years. You did not mean to hurt her. Still, you wonder why he guards her so fiercely if his feelings have faded.
I struggle to trust his tender words
After a tender evening, his replies become brief and infrequent. You remember the way he looked at you and search those few words for the same warmth. He says things are busy at home. It is harder to judge how he feels without being able to see his face.
I am afraid to ask how he feels
You have almost asked him several times, then pulled back. You fear hearing that this means less to him than it does to you. Around him you stay light and make jokes. At home you rehearse the same question, unsure whether you are ready to hear his answer.
